What if you don’t want to have sex with a particular client? But to avoid exploitation by particularly stubborn clients, we remind them that their 45 minutes are up and they’ll have to pay for extra services. Sometimes, clients ask for an extra head massage or something- we usually do it out of courtesy even if we don’t really want to. 1,600 on a weekend to get a massage? They come here for cheap and easy sex. I just press my lips together slightly and smile cutely.ĭo you ever have to draw a line when it comes to sex? Then everyone shows off their style or mannerisms-someone looks at the client seductively, someone blows an air-kiss. The bell rings and all available masseurs gather in the hall. If a client doesn’t have any permanent masseur preference, then he has the freedom to choose anyone from our available staff. I feel a lot like “me.” We go shopping together, try to pick up boys, fool around. Has working around gay men made you more comfortable with your sexuality? If my family ever gets to know about it, the first thing they would say is, “There are places where this sort of thing goes on?” Sometimes to be on a safe side, I bring home some feminine gifts like lipstick and nail polish for my sisters. I’ve told them that I work in a unisex parlor. They look at how I walk, talk and my habits-it’s quite clear that I’m into boys. VICE: Is every masseur in the gay spa gay?īobby: There is no hard and fast rule, but only those who are interested in boys would work in a gay spa.ĭoes your family know about your sexual orientation, and your job? LOL.This interview has been translated from Hindi, and edited for clarity and length. Hence my preference to be up on my rooftop, close to the sky, God and the voice of my own Soul. Especially in the East Village where ghetto meets NYU-eunoch-meets-party-central-meets-cellphone dystopia. It's very hard to have an open heart anywhere in this micro-violent oriented urban jungle of NYC. I myself and so afraid of rejection I often wear the mask of indifference. And most men's ego blinds them to the truth of their Soul, or having a rich and genuine discussion (and being open about s-). Most of the "chillun" I see in my 'hood have not had enough pain and suffering to understand the concept of failure and recovery/resurrection. As you age, you discover how essential massage is to alleviate pain and suffering. Younger men don't get it-as most do not feel pain because their bodies haven't started to degrade.
Giving and receiving massage is essential to living along with breathing and taking nourishment-in my book, but I'm a senior. I love massaging men and will do until I die. Some people say that being a Masseur is addictive. Saintorr nycmasseur's Personal Masseur Interview Finally, again, only book if you are committed to keeping your appointment. No restricted numbers.Īgain, as a reminder, I do not discuss erotic massage work via phone or text but am more than happy to discuss that with you in person. Late night sessions are also available, but call before 12 midnight to book.
If you book and cancel on the same day you are required to pay half the fee. Please only book a massage with me if you are committed to making your appointment.
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I have also taught massage clinical practice, been a professional actor, dancer, musician, Zumba instructor and Pilates teacher. My work history includes more than 20 years of hands-on massage experience and 5 years at Calvary Hospital doing hospice and palliative care massage. My massage techniques include elements of Swedish, deep tissue, sports, myofascial release, trigger point, Tui Na and facilitated stretching. I'm an expert in anatomy and injury treatment. I specialize in therapeutic, deep tissue or more relaxing, nurturing, sensual massage. The primary therapeutic function of massage is to keep soft tissues soft. I live in downtown Manhattan in the vibrant, East Village and am available most days and evenings. I love what I do and I do what I love! I provide judgement free, professional massage to all people regardless of age, *** or gender. I'm a bi, licensed massage therapist and a graduate of New York's Swedish Institute. Hello I'm Steven Orr and my business name is NYCMASSEUR.COM.